Every year, especially during football season, my kids will ask me why I am not rooting for a certain player or team. And I usually get a few eye rolls when I tell them it is because of their character. How they play the game means more to me than their stats. How they treat their opponent or the officials, how they respond to a bad call or botched play, how they walk off the field shows me a glimpse of their true character. It shows me a glimpse of their heart.
I’m not looking at their outward appearance. I’m not looking at the color of their skin, the tattoos on their arms, or the jersey they wear. I’m looking at their heart. I’m looking at their heart because my kids are looking at the person running those plays, making those choices, and setting examples whether they own up to it or not. I’m looking at their heart because it is my job to help form the hearts of my kids.
One part of helping to form the hearts of my kids is to teach them to look past what someone looks like on the outside and to look at the person on the inside. In light of recent events, that means teaching them that…
Just because someone is black doesn’t make them a criminal.
Just because someone is white doesn’t make them a racist.
Just because someone wears a uniform doesn’t make them a bad cop.
Just because someone goes to church doesn’t make them a Christian.
As parents it is our job to help our kids learn to make decisions and judgments on their own. It is our job to teach our kids what to look at and consider when making those judgments. It is our job to give our kids the tools they need to make those decisions.
We all have kids in our lives whether they are ours or not that look to us for examples on living life. We even have kids we don’t know watching us. The kid down the aisle in the grocery store is watching and listening. They are watching how you react to the person blocking the aisle or listening to the words you are saying over the phone. Even if you aren’t paying attention, they are.
So, do you want to make a difference in this world today?
Do you want to do something to counter act the evil like we’ve seen lately?
Then let’s get to the heart of the matter.
And while we are at it, let’s teach our kids how to get there too.
Living thru faith,